The most significant type of anger influencing the development of homosexual attraction in childhood is anger with oneself. As a result of ongoing rejections by peers, many boys acquire an intense dislike for their bodies and view them as weak, unattractive and unmasculine. This can lead to highly risky and self destructive addictive and sadomasochistic behavior for an intense dislike of them. One can also become obsessed with the bodies of one’s peers who are well-built and muscular. The ultimate expression of self-hatred and aversion to one’s body is seen in those who undergo sex change surgery.
Intense hatred is seen in homosexuals within the media or in the educational, political, ministerial and mental health fields when they attempt to force our culture to change its views on homosexuality. They direct their anger against the Judeo-Christian morality, the nuclear family and the basic differences between men and women.
A homosexual can grow to hate his body as small and weak. In spiritual therapy, his healing can progress by being thankful for his body that God gave him by viewing his soul as much more important as the body and by being thankful for his special male gifts.
HOMOSEXUAL ADDICTIVE DISORDER
The sexually compulsive, highly reckless and life-threatening behavior in a large percentage of homosexuals would indicate the presence of an addictive disorder. While the specific diagnostic category of sexual addiction has not been officially accepted, yet in the mental health field, clinical programs exist for such treatments along with journals of sexual addiction.
In spite of the danger of acquiring AIDS, enormous numbers of males do not protect themselves sexually. One study identified 31% of respondents in sixteen cities had engaged in unprotected sex. One article, “Why Gay Men are having Risky Sex” described the situation as explained and claimed that HIV infections had quadrupled in San Francisco since 1987. In many individuals this behavior is frequently preceded by the use of alcohol and drugs. This situation existed for some because of numerous emotional conflicts.
Narcissism or selfishness is another major factor influencing the attraction to the homosexual lifestyle. There is a tendency to not have to make a total commitment to one person. This behavior is almost childlike because it leads to minimal obligations in relationships and few limitations in the pursuit of pleasure.
This attitude is manifested by grandiose thinking: a feeling that one is far superior to others and so special that he or she is immune to acquiring the AIDS virus. They often do not warn their partners of their HIV status because they tend to be so self-absorbed.
One testimony revealed a man who felt deprived emotionally because he had a mother who spent most of the family income on herself. He believed that now life owed him a great deal. He began to use people in his drive for constant pleasure and he had no conscious moral conflicts about having 60 to 100 sexual partners per year.
Narcissism is a very powerful disorder that fuels the homosexual behavior in many people. There is a reluctance to give up a life of unchecked, irresponsible self indulgence. Many people try but are pulled down by the superficial life of pleasure seeking.
The mental health counselors fail to understand Christian spirituality, combined with good psychotherapy which will result in a complete healing with any disorder. The solution is a spiritual life after deliverance.
FLEEING EXCESSIVE SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY
Some people attempt to escape from excessive pressure by engaging in homosexual activities in which there is no commitment or responsibility. They begin to feel that their wives and children are burdens. These actions are followed by tormenting guilt because they feel that they have betrayed their wife and children as well as God.
One testimony revealed that Ralph suffered from his parent’s divorce: he became the little man of the family at the age of 12 and he became responsible for his mother and younger brothers. He had felt an overly responsibility for his mother’s happiness for many years. This resulted in an unconscious fear of intimacy with females. Homosexuality appeared to be free of excessive accountability.
FEAR, MISTRUST AND HOMOSEXUALITY
Fear of vulnerability of heterosexual relationships is another important factor in the development of homosexual attractions. This is usually unconscious and originates most often from traumatic experiences.
In males, this may be a consequence of having a mother who was overly controlling, excessively needy or dependent, angry and critical, unaffectionate and cold, narcissistic and insensitive, very mistrustful, addicted or ill. In therapy, he realized that his mother had a compulsive need to be in control, which stemmed from the fear and powerlessness that she had experienced in her own family because of her father’s drinking and the chaos that surrounded her home. His homosexual temptation developed because of his fear of trusting in female love and his need for affection from someone whom he could trust.
In females, the fear of trusting males in a loving relationship may arise from having a father who was angry, rejecting and distant, insensitive toward the mother, abusive, harsh, selfish, addicted or unloving. Subsequently, such females for a period of time may only feel safe being comforted in love by another female. She has a very powerful fear of being hurt like her mother if she made a commitment to a man. In therapy she realized that her father has controlled her relationships with men unconsciously.
A family marred by turmoil and pain can lead a son’s or daughter’s developing a fear of becoming vulnerable to those of the opposite sex. Rampant promiscuity with fidelity to no one is one of the most striking manifestations of such a fear of commitment. One study revealed that the average AIDS victim has had sixty sexual partners in the past twelve months. Spiritually, this spills over to mistrust in God.
There are two positions which are basically irreconcilable:
- Homosexuality is condemned by the Bible, God’s Word.
- Homosexuality is a given in some people’s lives:”this is the way I am.”
When Matthew 19 is read as a whole, we see Jesus teaches that most people are created for heterosexual marriage: “at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh” Matthew 19:4-5
Jesus refers to “eunuchs who have been so from birth.” This terminology (“born eunuchs”) was used in the ancient world to refer to homosexual men. If God did create gays “that way,” rejecting them would be tantamount to rejecting God’s work in creation.
The homosexuality orientation can be changed through prayer for inner healing and the power of the Holy Spirit. Unfortunately, this approach is open to criticism because it implies that one is “sick”.
There may be an angry reaction because there may have been an attempt to change but unsuccessfully. Sometimes this approach was tried but it did not last long.
WHY ARE SOME PEOPLE HOMOSEXUAL? IS IT INHERITED?
Homosexuals have a need for love from someone of the same sex (ordinarily the parent) and this may appear to be normal, which, unmet, become sexualized.
Three possible reasons why people may go through a phase of being interested in someone of the same sex could be curiosity, slower sexual maturity, or misguided messages from the media that approve of homosexuality. There is no conclusive proof that homosexuality is inherited. (Experts such as Harvey, Nicolosi, Whitehead, Rudegeair et al, say that it is more likely to be socially caused, e.g. by a non-loving parent and/or various other types of neglect).
NOW HERE IS THE REAL KICKER.
A pastor, who is very connected to God, tells a story. He asked God why it is that his brother was gay and yet hes was not. You will not find this answer in any psychology book.
God said that when his brother was in the womb, there were destructive arguments between the mother and the unreasonable father. His brother took the side of the mother, his more feminine side.
So the root cause can be traced for a man to a poor relationship with a father. This can take place even while a baby is in the womb and the father becomes unreasonable toward the mother. This explanation is similar to a lesbian who has a mother who was unreasonable.
A combination of both biological and social factors combined mold people into who they are and determines the mindset of one that chooses to engage in criminal behavior. We are not saying that homosexuality is criminal, but there are similarities.
The social environment is the main reason why individuals commit crime, and, secondly, crime occurs and is fostered by biological traits that eventually lead to criminal behavior. So it is all about the environment: one’s peers are those individuals that tend to coerce or indirectly effect the decision making of another. It’s also all about the biological rejection of a parent from a child in the womb.
HOW DOES THE CHURCH REGARD HOMOSEXUALITY?
To have a homosexual orientation means to be sexually attracted to someone of the same sex. The homosexual act is an act of grave, but the tendency towards the act is seen by the Church as a disordered condition. Whilst never accepting the sin we must always love the sinner, always being ready to give a respectful account of the truth.
IS GOD ANTI-GAY?
Homosexual activity is condemned in the following passages of the Bible:
“In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.” Romans 1:27
“We also know that the law is made not for the righteous but for lawbreakers and rebels, the ungodly and sinful, the unholy and irreligious, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers, for the sexually immoral, for those practicing homosexuality, for slave traders and liars and perjurers—and for whatever else is contrary to the sound doctrine.” 1 Timothy 1:9,10
“Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men 1 Corinthians. 6:9
“Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable. Leviticus 18:22
Gradually I began to understand that my sexuality was not something I owned, but something God owned in me, and that the clear witness of Scripture was to a dual purpose for sexuality. Sex, in God’s intention, is meant to do two things: provide for the procreation of children and build up husbands and wives in the love, respect, and life of each other. How did this square with the kind of sex with which I was most familiar, particularly in light of its inevitably transient nature? After all, homosexual sex is completely and unalterably divorced from the responsibility of procreation. Is this really how God intended we should use our sexuality?
Homosexual orientation is not a choice for most people, but being gay is, and it is this choice which motivates homosexual groups ranging from Dignity to Act UP. HENRI HOUWEN
We can believe what we choose. Unfortunately we are answerable for what we choose to believe.
What is the TRUTH? According to the liberal Christians or relativist, there are no absolute truths or absolute truths cannot be known. Relativism leads to ‘wishy-washy, airy-fairy, feel-good’ Christianity.
There is already a moral code which is built into us. Every social animal needs a set of social rules – ways of behaving that allow communities to defend, protect and support one another. Yet, their thinking is like the analogy of a man walking through fog. Everything distant is soft and fuzzy but everything close up is clear: steal his car and a moral relativist suddenly KNOWS exactly what right and wrong is.
When you engage such culture-bound people in conversation, you will inevitably hear them express notions, which appear absurd even under their own dim lighting. They have an inability to articulate any moral position at all: the only response they can muster is that “people should be able to do what they want.”
Some see religion as being too stoic with a lot of don’ts. They turn to the new age movement for answers; this makes no demands on you. You are not required to change: no sin – no judgment. Heaven has been redefined: it is here on earth. You simply align yourself with the universe. To make things worse, they have a vocal disdain for the moral authority of their church and God.
There will always be an unconscious search for the meaning of life. God has built this propensity into His creation. It can be likened to a Radio Frequency Identification (RFID) chip imbedded into our brain. This yearning is not unlike thirty-something women anxious to find husbands and have children. Ironically, the hole, which we try to fill in life, keeps on getting bigger no matter what success you experience. There is really no way to fill this spiritual hole in the material world.
When persons in conscience have the courage to face the more serious questions of human existence-particularly questions related to the purpose of life, to suffering and to dying-they come to the same realization of St. Augustine: “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee“: excerpt from Confessions. “All are yours, and you are Christ’s, and Christ is God’s” 1 Corinthians 3: 22 or, the world or life or death or the present or the future—all are yours if you wish.
Few people spend time thinking about God. They blame God for everything that they dislike. They even profess an utter disbelief in God and they think God will go away, by saying, “There is no God!”. Whist! Just like that! They pronounce the magic words and God disappears in their mind. Yet, their hateful heart deceives the mind.
What is the TRUTH? Let us return to the original question. If you want to know what people say is the truth ask the ones that were on the Titanic. They boarded it on opinion, they disembarked very unceremoniously, some never to know and some never to forget.
THE TRUTH: the Titanic was sinkable. So the wisdom of a decision rests on the outcome of the decision. So decisions should be based on the eternal truth that never changes rather than man’s opinions that constantly and frequently change. Jesus said, “Sanctify them by the truth; Your word is truth.” John 17:17
“He does what is right and just, he shall preserve his life;
since he has turned away from all the sins which he committed, he shall surely live, he shall not die (in eternity).” Ezekiel 18:27,28
JESUS WISHES TO SPEAK TO YOU.
Walk with Me.
“I love you.
Some teach that homosexuality is not a sin. It is very clear in the Bible that every homosexual act in sinful, and marriage of two of the same sex is a horrible sin. Do not accept what society is teaching you because today, most governments follow the evil one and they have rejected Me.
There are some who know that they tend towards homosexuality but as they are My followers, they will remain single and never have any sexual relations with another person of their own sex. From the very beginning with the creation of Adam and Eve, marriage has been between one man and one woman. No one has the right to change this.
Help to form many of these communities in the places where you live and support them. If you are isolated, you will not survive. If you only go to Church on Sunday and there is nothing during the week, you will fall away. You need support from other believers in order to survive and grow.
Do some charitable work such as visiting the sick at home or in the hospital. Visit the elderly and help them in their loneliness. Be men and women of prayer who spend time alone with Me and who go to church and receive Me in Holy Communion.
Walk with Me and the faith will be strong in your communities. I bless you.”
The above messages came to Father Melvin Doucette:
Fr. Melvin Doucette was ordained to the priesthood on and joined the Missionaries of Africa for 29 years in Africa. In contemplative prayer every morning, Fr. Doucette receives by interior locution “messages from heaven” to share with the public.
HOW DOES MORAL IMPURITY BEGIN IN YOUR LIFE?
- Natural Curiosity: you begin to gain knowledge of evil by experience.
- Sensual focus: If you allow yourself to look at what God has forbidden, you will be affected.
- Awakening of the conscience: Your conscience is a God-given alarm system. It will tell you when something is wrong even though your friends try to convince you that it is right.
You can always rationalize away a sin.
“We know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28) so apparently suffering or problems work out for God’s purposes and your ultimate benefit.
“Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the LORD delivers him out of them all” (Psalm 34:19) because “the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and His ears are open to their prayer. But the face of the Lord is against those who do evil”. 1st Peter 3:12 So it seems that we can’t solve this on our own, but we have God’s own guarantee.
We are in a demon possessed world. A world filled with demonic activity. Satan is the spirit behind the gay movement and everything else that opposes God. Homosexuality is nothing more than demons inside a person. Cast out the demons in Jesus name and the homosexuality will be gone. Jesus said,” in My name you shall cast out demons”.
PRAYER OF DELIVERANCE
The deliverance ministry should not be overlooked because JESUS CHRIST himself preached and demonstrated deliverance by casting out demons and healing the sick and delivering all who were oppressed of the devil.
(In the Name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I command all evil spirits influencing you now, as you read this, to be quiet and not to give you any evil thoughts. This I command in the Name of Jesus.)
Your Christian friend who is sinless can command these spirits to go back where they came from (the abyss) to be soon replaced with the Love of our Lord.
The short form is “In the name of Our Lord Jesus, I bind and deliver the evil spirits of lust and homosexuality and I command them to go to the abyss.” The remaining spirits are also delivered in the same manner as listed below.
The following prayer can be done together: the person to be delivered must also pray silently during the Prayer of Deliverance: “Come, Holy Spirit, Come” or “Come, Lord Jesus, Come” silently.
The void that takes place brings a complete sense of peace, and you will now be free in Jesus. If you don’t believe this, try it and see for yourself. You will definitely know after the prayer of deliverance that a physical change has taken place.
The person delivered must now thank God for the spiritual healing every day until the total deliverance has taken place and to thank Him whenever he or she thinks about it and a minimum of once daily.
“Lord Jesus, I praise You and thank You for my healing and deliverance. Thank you Lord Jesus.”
The delivered person does not want to ever go back to the ever pervading influence of evil spirits. It is very important to connect with a Bible-oriented church. One must soak oneself in God’s love by reading the Bible: the short gospel of Luke for beginners and later the gospels of John.
God divinely inspired the BIBLE . How do we know? Each of eight accurate predictions shows a high probability mathematically. The probability of one individual fulfilling eight prophecies have odds of 1 in 10 17 (1 in 100,000,000,000,000,000). Jesus Christ fulfilled all prophecies, therefore the Bible MUST BE TRUE.
The Old Testament indicates another 40 astonishing predictions.
Christianity experiences stunning growth—from approximately 3.8 million adherents in China in 1956 to an estimated 87 to 100 million Christians today.
HOW IS JESUS STILL ALIVE TODAY?
Jesus is alive today! He heals today (through His followers) and in many cases it is realized immediately. How else can you explain the explosion of Christianity, the world’s largest religion, on earth: 2.2 billion adherents, nearly a third (31 percent) of all 6.9 billion people on Earth.
Christians know and feel His Presence; they communicate with Him personally; Christian prayers are always answered.
This author has been given the Gift of Healing only because he is a Christian Lay Missionary, who travels two to three places every year. On his last trip to Columbia he successfully transferred his Gift to his Spanish translators, who were able to heal as he did. He has healed Muslims to their great surprise.
He also delivers away evil spirits along with their healing. All those who are delivered from evil spirits feel a complete physical sense of peace.
DREAMS AND VISIONS
God can give a message to those non-Christians to change their heart. God knows faith will be developed eventually. God will come to you in the form of dreams or visions. So be sensitive to any dreams or visions, when you ask God for it earnestly.
HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED HOW TO BECOME A CHRISTIAN?
- Christians don’t shout, “I live a clean life!” Christians whisper “I feel lost, but now God found me and God forgives me.”
- Christians don’t speak with pride. They confess that they stumble and need Christ to be their guide.
- Christians don’t say,” I’m strong.” They say they try to be strong because they need strength.
- Christians don’t brag about success, but they admit that they fail and they need God to clean the mess.
- Christians don’t claim to be perfect, but God still believes in them.
- Christians still feel the sting of pain. They have their share of headaches but they still call upon His Name.
- Christians are not holier than others. They are simple sinners who receive God’s unbelievable Grace.
Christianity on a Table Napkin:
“If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Romans 10:9
God the Father will wipe every tear from our eyes, and there shall be no more death or mourning, crying out or pain. We will be like Him, for we will see Him as He is The Holy Spirit will have made all things new. Eternal joy will begin. “For the Mighty One has done great things for me— holy is His name.” Luke 1: 49
Are we not like Barabbas who was justly condemned for murder, but saved by the innocent Jesus on the cross? Are we not like the adulterous woman, deserving of death by stoning, to whom Jesus says, “I do not condemn you”? And Jesus saved them both. In fact, Jesus came to earth specifically to look for and save those who were lost, like you.
“Come now, let us settle the matter,” says the LORD, “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool”. Isaiah 1:18
You may need some counseling with a pastor, priest or competent Christian worker, who will introduce you to a Short Course on Who is Jesus? Start by reading a short biography of Jesus in the Gospel of Luke. Read several verses before going to bed and read the same verse upon arising. He will defend you from attacks of the enemy when you ask Him.
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